All Entries in the "Dating" Category
What I learned in 2008…
You know 2008 was one for the record books. It was a year of me dating the wrong women, downloading the wrong kind of music, golf game slipping, and drinking the wrong kind of Kool-Aid. Sure I was able to gain an advanced degree, vote and help elect the first African American President of the [...]
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What Are Your New Years Resolutions?
The celebration of the New Year is the oldest of all holidays. It was first observed in ancient Babylon about 4000 years ago. In the years around 2000 BC, Babylonians celebrated the beginning of a new year on what is now March 23, although they themselves had no written calendar.
The tradition of the New Year’s [...]
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Is Being A Professional That Intimidating?
From what I gather, many Black professionals have been told they are intimidating by potential daters. I know I have been told that many times over. However, I just don’t see myself as intimidating …like atall.
I know in Vegas, having an advanced degree or saying I am a lawyer as a young Black woman is [...]
Popularity: 10% [?]
Interracial Dating, What Gives
I really have concerns or questions with interracial dating. As we grow older we try and settle down and find that one person to love us unconditionally. When it comes to interracial dating I am caught between a rock and a hard place. While, I am a sucker for love and finding that perfect someone, [...]
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The Married/Engaged/Taken Holler
I need some assistance understanding a dating issue. Why do some people in committed relationships work so hard to avoid their commitment in public? Let me give you some examples.
Example A: Mr. Married Man shows up at a party with his boys without his wedding ring, shakin’ it fast and pushing up on any woman [...]
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The Plight of the Good Woman
I was sitting around talking to my girls and we started talking about the problem with being a good woman or a “good candidate” when dealing with men. Men always talk about how they want a good woman. However, when a good woman is staring a man in the face, making him breakfast, with her ride or [...]
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It Ain’t Trickin If You Got It
Alright kids, I know you have been missing your P.O.S.H. this week….I got the emails. Life is alright, just got caught up trying to keep my job during this recession. You know, pay a few bills until P.O.S.H daily hits are enough to pay the bills. (P.S. tell your friends about us…we like pennies but [...]
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The Gold Digger Diatribe
If you had thought the era of the gold digger had ended…think again. Once again we bring you another debate between Jock Roqoff and Gordon Gartrell on an issue that has plagued the black community like D.L. Hughley’s show on CNN. In the tradition of an old fashioned debate on the steps of Club Woody [...]
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Cohabitation, Does It Work?
So you finally found the one… or at least the one close enough to the one that you think to take it seriously enough to decide to share your space and live in sin while you contemplate the inevitable (marriage or restraining order).
Your heart skips a beat. Your head spins with visions of cozy home-cooked [...]
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Every Good Woman Needs A Thug?
These days, it seems like folks take their cues about life from rap lyrics. Well Jadakiss in his new song “By My Side” says every good woman needs a Thug. Really? I mean really do we all just need a roughneck like MC Lyte said? Ummm, I don’t think so.
Guys keep telling me that women want Mr. [...]
Popularity: 60% [?]
