Comments on: I Wont Date A Woman Who Can’t Cook

By: fred

fred — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 04:35:12 +0000

first of all…the title of the article needs to be fixed: I won't (not, I wont). Look, men have needs, which include slaying the dragon. A man needs to know that if he's going to give himself (to provide and protect), that the woman admires him and she is ready to do her part (take his gift and give it back to him in her feminine way). Otherwise, he'll move on and find a woman who is ready to receive him. (you really need to simmer on these thoughts…pun intended)

By: BruinForever

BruinForever — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 19:39:22 +0000

I should note that it doesn't mean women have to do ALL the cooking, but a woman who is unwilling to cook is a HUGE red flag!

By: BruinForever

BruinForever — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 19:36:08 +0000

Women make demands all the damn time. “I need a tall 6'5″ man with a good job making 100k a year with a decent car, health insurance, and good teeth who makes love like an animal and looks as good as Denzel.”
What's wrong with making one simple request? Goodness gracious!
Men are entitled to their preferences as well.
IMHO, A WOMEN WHO CAN'T COOK = A WOMAN WHO CAN'T KEEP A MAN.
Enuff said.

By: don

don — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 17:23:22 +0000

love this post and it coincides perfectly with what i was told and the advice i give my relatives, almost daily.

By: weed_detox

weed_detox — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 14:12:08 +0000

Please give me more information. I love it, Thanks again.

By: MeaganS

MeaganS — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 19:21:38 +0000

Amen! What on Earth gives a man the right to tell me what I should or shouldnt know how to do. I would never want to date a man that had that narrow of thinking either.

By: MeaganS

MeaganS — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 19:12:12 +0000

You are going to have her “trained”????? Thats an insult! Ever think that maybe you should take a few classes and learn how to cook for yourself?

By: Mercedes

Mercedes — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 02:58:20 +0000

This is a good article. =]

By: Mercedes

Mercedes — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 02:57:04 +0000

I know how to boil noodles, I can make macaroni and cheese. I can make a spaghetti meal, with meat and not just sauce. lol My eggs are alright, pancakes from the box are fine, but I think that I should know how to cook a little better than that.
BOTH OF MY PARENTS KNOW HOW TO COOK! I don't think it makes any sense for me to not want to cook for my family!
Preparing a meal for someone is just another way to show a person how loved they are.
The fact that someone takes out time to make something to please them makes another person feel good.
I will become better over time, but I hope my future husband knows how to cook some things too. Emphasize on the letter 's'.
My daddy knows how to THROW DOWN on the grill AND cook on the stove top.
Don't put it all on the woman!
A family is pulled together by a man and a woman.

By: Jaybanx

Jaybanx — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 14:33:00 +0000

A woman should be able to cook and if she can't she should at least try to cook something simple. I don't care what part of the country you live in, the old saying still applies, the way to a man's heart is through is stomach. Not his penis! I'd rather have a woman with domestic skills and little bedroom experience than a freak with no domestic skills. On the other hand ladies, there's nothing wrong with wanting a man who can change a tire or fix things around the house. So we need to kill the notion of today's woman being professional and not having time to be at home taking care of business too. The bible says a wife should be a helpmate, so ladies help your man by filling his stomach with a homecooked meal. Remember if you ain't cooking for him a home, he's eating somewhere. So if your kitchen is closed at home, don't worry about where he eats!

By: lawrence19

lawrence19 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 12:45:15 +0000

I don't need anyone to cook for me….I like cookin (or at least attempting) lol…But in a world where women have these so called “high standards” for men I feel its not asking too much for a woman to know how to cook

By: Scott

Scott — Tue, 19 May 2009 20:46:14 +0000

Ok, first off a man is the King of his castle. A woman is the Queen. Therefore when a man comes home from a hard day in the jungle his woman should be buk naked with an apron on and a hot plate in her hands. Reason? Well quite simple, a mans role is to protect and provide. Not serve. When they go out on the town, his job is to protect, dress his woman in the finest clothing and drive her in the tightest whip. Open the door for her, walk into the finest places including restaurants with her on his arm and sip on the finest cognac. These are just some of the reasons why a woman should have a man. This is his role. It is what we are designed to do. However, these things often conveniently get overlooked when ever men start talking about women in the kitchen. A woman should not only know the how to cook but know it well. Otherwise she's not being responsible to her man/family. However, this is not to say that a man should not cook when the spirit moves him. I like to cook, one of the finest around, but I am also thinking seriously about putting my woman into a cooking class when the time comes because she doesn't know how. It is only fair. If a man protects and provides then woman should cook. Women love strong healthy men and men love women who can cook.

By: WarHammer Axe

WarHammer Axe — Thu, 14 May 2009 15:18:11 +0000

Let’s keep this simple…if I can cook, clean, wash dishes, do all the things women used to be able to handle AND cut the grass, rake the yard, fix things and still do the masculine things…then what is she bringing to the table?

If you don’t want a man to expect you to cook, then what do you expect him to do? Live up to his traditional role as a man…earn money, take care of things, be a provider, protect and respect?

Why should he?

You don’t have to live up to tradition, neither does he. Judging by the single BW rate, it seems like no matter what WOMEN say, they cannot change what MEN think and feel. So, if you choose not to be able to cook and have problems finding someone who won’t want you for that, accept that YOUR CHOICE has consequences.

You can always eat…alone.

WarHammer Axe

By: swiv

swiv — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 12:57:27 +0000

i suck at it. most nights it's my turn, it'll be at the local ponderosa.

LMAO!

By: Lynnette

Lynnette — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 00:28:16 +0000

What sensible human would judge a woman on her culinary skills? Men like that don't belong at my dinning room table, let alone having the pleasure of tasting my food. Some people are still stuck in the old days and are afraid of changing. I refuse to let a role define me. Can I cook? Yes, I have the ability to cook and also to read a cook book. Therefore, unless my boo can't read, his ass should know how to cook too! I'll be damn if I come home from a long day and his ass is sitting on the couch waiting for me to fix up dinner. I am an advocator for true equality so if I'm cooking you're washing the dishes and we'll rotate for future meals. If you can't get down with that then you can't get down with me. And even though I can cook, I wouldn't date a guy with that kind of narrow thinking. Every woman isn't meant to be in the kitchen and thinking that just because she's a woman means she should be is sickening to me..