My Girl Got A Girlfriend

So, this weekend, I was visiting a local club and we had VIP service.  Everyone was laughing and drinking it up and we were joking with the table next to us, which included a man and two women.  Everyone was laughing it up and having a good time, nothing out of the ordinary.  As the night wore on, my male friends got to chatting the dude up.  We learned the man had been married to one woman for ten years and the other woman was his wife’s girlfriend. 

As the night wore on, the freaks came out.  There was a buttcheekery dancin’ and freaky behavior going on in booth #3.  People were doing their best not to look, laugh, point,ogle or stare in WTF horror. 

I am really confused here readers.  I am alright with folks ho’ it up, hey, its your bedroom not mine.  But, how do you propose bringing that into a marriage?  I mean how do you say that to your husband?  “Hey honey, I know I told you till death do us part and all….but what about spicing it up and adding a third wheel?” 

 I mean when is the appropriate time to address this?  Do you bring it up at dinner, during a movie, while out with friends?  I mean come on….and while we are at it, how does the third wheel concubine, end up in the mix?  How do you say, sure I would love to be your bust it baby?  I mean old girl appeared pretty happy with her lot in life, I guess who wouldn’t love cheek poppin and slutty dancin while you eat for free …I …guess…… Doesn’t this negate some of the trust and honesty found within relationships if you have someone else pop lockin’ and droppin for you?  I am so confused.

One obvious con of threesomes would be between happily married/ in a relationship couples is the care and companionship issue. You may have the intention to make your woman or man happy and sexually satisfied and go along with their desires.  This seems like a slippery slope where someone could end up cut hurt. This is due to the fact that your beloved will not take it easy when seeing you making love to another person.

This takes me back to the Will and Jada open relationship post…..almost a year later, and I still don’t get it.  Is Cheatin’ The New Black???

How did we get here and what are your thoughts?

Are threesomes this common? 

If you can’t separate love and sex how would you enter into such a relationship?

The physical needs may be met but what about your emotional needs?

Help,

CocoaDiva

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