Comments on: Every Good Woman Needs A Thug?

By: MorehouseMac

MorehouseMac — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 15:50:14 +0000

I am a man and I would concur with the statement that LegalDiva has said. There were so many guys at my alma mater that were "edgy" but couldn't do anything that men in the 30s, 40s, 50s & 60s were able to do. I was the only guy in a clique of 6 guys I hung with that had repair skills for my apartment or on my vehicle. Guys aren't soft now, we're just suckers to technology, less has to be done and minority's are huge consumers(physically & mentally) of these products. I tell guys that we need to literally step back in time & get back to how we were, that's why I advise guys to build their own stuff, stop using Facebook (because of it's total USELESSNESS) and buy a map and go camping in an area instead of using GPS. A man needs to know what to do & when to do it while also dressing nice, balancing accounts payable, and taking care of all family. My father always taught me to use my mind & hands to create, mold and make better.

However, when guys do this, you as women need to recognize what is or has happened. Do not complain about the methods, if its done its done. Do not want a "rugged guy" but don't want to go out camping with him or buy a GPS for him. If a man cooks, help him become better & don't belittle what he cooks or that he does it. Make sure to take care of you and me then I will take care of me and you!!

Also, with safety issue, many of you women will need to protect yourself because of the exponential number of problems growing out there. Yes the disrespectful club incident is there, but most attacks or incidents on women happen when they are by themselves or appear to be alone. That is why I advise & train many women in CCW (carrying concealed weapon) tactics. I know that whomever I am with, whether my homeboys or my lady friends, will be safe after my .40-cal Glock opens the perp like a refrigerator.

By: Club Penguin Cheats

Club Penguin Cheats — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 00:25:40 +0000

I doubt very seriously that many adult professional women are really checkin for the Young Jeezy lookin dudes. If so, there wouldn't be so many of them screaming about not being able to get a man. There is no shortage of thugs in the world.

By: Name

Name — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 17:20:47 +0000

He works for the government. He's financially secure!!! Maybe he does sponsor Ethiopian kids, too. Personally, I sponsor missionaries. Women can be so silly sometimes. The author of the post said, “We just want a little security and knowing that your man can take care of you.” Financially speaking, very few types can provide more security than a government employee. It doesn't matter how bad the economy gets, it's almost impossible for him to lose his job. Are you seriously saying you want somebody good at fighting in the club? I have never had a woman get hassled when she was WITH me in a club. Now if she's on her own, she gets whatever she gets. But hey, if the guy needs some pointers, he can sign up at a dojo. Anybody can learn to fight if need be. But character is a lot harder to find.

By: elyse

elyse — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 11:44:36 +0000

not at all, i do not want/ like thugs. im a quiet mild temperant person and i like rational, th oughtful, intelligent and quirky men, and needless to say, most black american men are not into me.

By: Double Speak Anyone?

Double Speak Anyone? — Sun, 21 Jun 2009 06:51:05 +0000

Thanks for dumbing down so that everyone could easily understand your complex explaination…. I know you may not be accustomed to communicating with non-exclusives like ourselves…but thanks for shedding the light…LOL

By: waistingtime

waistingtime — Fri, 22 May 2009 16:13:13 +0000

there are two kinds of women those whos brains have some kind of activity going on and know how to seperate triggerd sexual atraction from real masculinity and those who cant seperate these two things …So they wil fal for any boy who learned how to hide his imaturity…Thugs are realy just boys,they think like boys now the problem with the square men is they get to emotional about things so they kind of like …FEMALES…So the misses chooeses the one that is closesd to the man ..The boy wich is the thug !Real men are rare so are real females!It takes an imature individual to love another imature individual …Its a jungle out there and thats just nature Exclusivity is meant to remain exclusive ……(excuse my writing didnt i quit school when i whas 15)

By: Maine

Maine — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 00:27:17 +0000

Claudette Jameson

I have also dated the good guys. Was in school, had his own car, had a job,he was doing his thing, but that was just too much for me. I was honestly intimidated by him.

And that raises a question. Are females intimidated by guys who are not thugs? Who they say "appear to have a stick up their ass". Do they feel like they are not good enough to compare to a mans accomplishments?

By: Maine

Maine — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 00:22:35 +0000

Then that isnt a Thug…

By: Maine

Maine — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 00:18:34 +0000

6."couldn’t change a tire if you paid them 3 times what AAA was charging' (call me next time I can use that $100 to buy me some new tires on my car)

The sad thing is, she wants a mechanic who can change tires but not a man who could help her with a government grant and subsides to get her dream home. The typical thinking of our race. It's sad actually.

Your car want start so you use the broke mind thinking. Your "Bad Boy, Thug" will play around under the hood trying his hardest to fix your car. Then he will call his broke friends who are good to you because they are thugs/bad boys and they will bring beer and then you have a group of broke minded thugs/bad boys who still won't fix it. Eventually you'll call AAA and get the work done. The bowtie cat would have said, look I need to go to a meeting, meet up with some people, let's go to a resteraunt, let's go out of town what ever and let AAA take care of that car, we have 2 others so don't worry.

But instead of that setting, you want the one you mentioned in the above post. It's not the bowtie guy isn't good enough for you, you're not good enough for the bowtie guy. Sorry.

By: Maine

Maine — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 00:09:25 +0000

This is a female who knows what she wants. I read the other answers who justified wanting a bad “boy” lol. And I was waiting for the answer of a woman. Not from “girls”. Thank you so much Masha +5 for your answer.

By: retractable awnings

retractable awnings — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 02:22:21 +0000

I think having both traits is a cool thing for most women..

By: Claudette Jameson

Claudette Jameson — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 21:29:08 +0000

I’ve been with all types of guys and I’ve came to the conclusion that I like my guys half and half, and I really believe those are the best kind. I have dated the real thug dudes. The gang related thug guys,and I just didn’t feel comfortable with him. We weren’t on the same level. I was moving up and he was too busy with staying where he’s at and running his hood. Plus he cheated on me.

I have also dated the good guys. Was in school, had his own car, had a job,he was doing his thing, but that was just too much for me. I was honestly intimidated by him. He was a really sweet guy and was devoted to me, but it was just too much of a good thing and I couldn’t handle that.

The guy I’m with now is a little bit of both. He’s thug, but he has a job and he’s respectful, and he’s trying to better his life.Like the good guy he is really sweet and respectful, and that makes being around him addicting. He’s the perfect guy.

But to be honest, if I had a good guy and a thug guy standing in front of me side-by-side, and I had to choose, I would choose the thug. Just because they are usually cuter and I just feel safe around them.

By: Nia

Nia — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 02:06:11 +0000

I am ignoring the pink elephant in the room….tiptoeing out the back door, walking sideways.

By: Jock Roqoff

Jock Roqoff — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 23:13:24 +0000

Am I the only one questioning whether Smartenup didn’t just make up this SoSensual24 character? I mean, I haven’t seen dickriding like that since Janet Jacme got out of porn. Either that, or you got a groupie, bruh. Enjoy.

By: Nia

Nia — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 03:19:11 +0000

I believe part of your reply is confused “checking me and putting me in my place” was not and will never be a phrase used by me. I don’t date thugs…I merely made case for why “some” women find ” “thugs” appealing. However, I do know males on ALL levels…and just as many black men feel it is a sad state of affairs with a lot of sisters, I feel the same about my brothers. And the biggest complaint is with the condescending attitude of the “educated” non-thug brothers. The majority of the men I date/have dated grew up with their fathers in the house and their attitudes toward women are the worst…not meant for debate, merely expressing my opinion based on my experiences…..