Comments on: Where Did Black Love Go? http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/2008/08/where-did-black-love-go/ Health, Fitness, Relationships, and Beauty Fri, 10 Sep 2010 02:04:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Fine sexy and sweet http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/2008/08/where-did-black-love-go/comment-page-1/#comment-611 Fine sexy and sweet Tue, 21 Oct 2008 03:18:55 +0000 http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/?p=74#comment-611 Hey to all you men out there. My black men- Dont listen to these negative comments that people always use to put you down. Just know that there are fine educated black women who are down for you no matter what. I love a man who is intellectual and compassionate, caring, understanding spiritual, loving, funny, and good spirited. When I think of these attributes the first thing that comes to mind is my one and only true love and that is my BLACK MAN. love you love you love you baby. Hey to all you men out there. My black men- Dont listen to these negative comments that people always use to put you down. Just know that there are fine educated black women who are down for you no matter what.

I love a man who is intellectual and compassionate, caring, understanding spiritual, loving, funny, and good spirited. When I think of these attributes the first thing that comes to mind is my one and only true love and that is my BLACK MAN.

love you love you love you baby.

]]> By: blackwomenblowthetrumpet.blogspot.com http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/2008/08/where-did-black-love-go/comment-page-1/#comment-191 blackwomenblowthetrumpet.blogspot.com Sat, 09 Aug 2008 04:27:00 +0000 http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/?p=74#comment-191 Hello there!<br/><br/>It is amazing you have this post because Darryl Jones had a two-part series on "Black Men Hate Black Women" and "Black Women Hate Black Men".<br/><br/>Sheer madness!<br/><br/>I think that many resentments between black men and black women are rooted in unresolved abandonment issues.<br/><br/>Peace, blessings and DUNAMIS!<br/>Lisa<br/><br/>*Please feel welcome to stop by my blog anytime and jump into some conversations! There are quite a few topics that would interest you! Hello there!

It is amazing you have this post because Darryl Jones had a two-part series on “Black Men Hate Black Women” and “Black Women Hate Black Men”.

Sheer madness!

I think that many resentments between black men and black women are rooted in unresolved abandonment issues.

Peace, blessings and DUNAMIS!
Lisa

*Please feel welcome to stop by my blog anytime and jump into some conversations! There are quite a few topics that would interest you!

]]> By: Anonymous http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/2008/08/where-did-black-love-go/comment-page-1/#comment-190 Anonymous Sat, 09 Aug 2008 02:04:00 +0000 http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/?p=74#comment-190 I love the way certain colors can compliment a sista's complexion. I love the way certain colors can compliment a sista’s complexion.

]]> By: Glennisha Morgan http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/2008/08/where-did-black-love-go/comment-page-1/#comment-189 Glennisha Morgan Sat, 09 Aug 2008 01:54:00 +0000 http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/?p=74#comment-189 I am so sick and tired of hearing about Black Love and where it went as if it's totally non-existent because it's not! It's Black folks getting married all around the world everyday. There are also Black folks in committed relationships. Just look around. I see Black couples walking down the street holding hands all the time, young and old. There are also plenty of them in Hollywood. I think we make too much a fuss about these so called "Black Issues" I am so sick and tired of hearing about Black Love and where it went as if it’s totally non-existent because it’s not! It’s Black folks getting married all around the world everyday. There are also Black folks in committed relationships. Just look around. I see Black couples walking down the street holding hands all the time, young and old. There are also plenty of them in Hollywood. I think we make too much a fuss about these so called “Black Issues”

]]> By: Trevor Psi http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/2008/08/where-did-black-love-go/comment-page-1/#comment-188 Trevor Psi Fri, 08 Aug 2008 18:49:00 +0000 http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/?p=74#comment-188 Great post but also check out Chauncey's 3 part series about Is Black Love Dead on this blog. Pretty interesting reading. I love this blog. Keep up the good work! Great post but also check out Chauncey’s 3 part series about Is Black Love Dead on this blog. Pretty interesting reading. I love this blog. Keep up the good work!

]]> By: Dina http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/2008/08/where-did-black-love-go/comment-page-1/#comment-187 Dina Fri, 08 Aug 2008 16:12:00 +0000 http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/?p=74#comment-187 I have to say that as long as we focus on the negative, we will subconsciously subdue ourselves to negative attitudes and/or actions towards each other and within ourselves as Black people. Having said that, I would like to focus on the positive qualities that I enjoy about Black Men. <br/>I enjoy being able to relate to a Black man because he understands my struggle to live as a Black woman every day in America.<br/>I respect his willingness to work hard everyday to support his family, himself or loved ones.<br/>I admire the way he passionately supports me even if my decisions are not always sound.<br/>Last but not least among many other positives, I enjoy the chocolate skin that I get to gaze at everyday when I see him.<br/>Black man, Black man, Black man, although your love is ancient, it is the moving force of my dedication to find the right black man when the time is right.<br/>Peace I have to say that as long as we focus on the negative, we will subconsciously subdue ourselves to negative attitudes and/or actions towards each other and within ourselves as Black people. Having said that, I would like to focus on the positive qualities that I enjoy about Black Men.
I enjoy being able to relate to a Black man because he understands my struggle to live as a Black woman every day in America.
I respect his willingness to work hard everyday to support his family, himself or loved ones.
I admire the way he passionately supports me even if my decisions are not always sound.
Last but not least among many other positives, I enjoy the chocolate skin that I get to gaze at everyday when I see him.
Black man, Black man, Black man, although your love is ancient, it is the moving force of my dedication to find the right black man when the time is right.
Peace

]]> By: Pretty Cool Lawyer http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/2008/08/where-did-black-love-go/comment-page-1/#comment-185 Pretty Cool Lawyer Fri, 08 Aug 2008 12:30:00 +0000 http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/?p=74#comment-185 I don't think interracial couples are the norm. Black men and women are still far less likely than any other race to marry outside of their "race". Black love didn't go anywhere. Interracial marriages where one partner is Black represent less than 10% of marriages involving Black people overall (from a CNN article). <br/><br/>I think that Black love is not embraced by popular culture because having two people that are not a mother/father and child (unless you are on BET or marketing to a primarily Black audience during a Black tv show) doesn't present the diversity image that makes people all warm and fuzzy. And as for the internet, well that is unexplainable. But then, google tends to bring back wiki and articles that talk about emerging areas of society. Black love has been around for centuries. I'd imagine that if you googled "get a White woman" the results would not generally apply to White men. I don’t think interracial couples are the norm. Black men and women are still far less likely than any other race to marry outside of their “race”. Black love didn’t go anywhere. Interracial marriages where one partner is Black represent less than 10% of marriages involving Black people overall (from a CNN article).

I think that Black love is not embraced by popular culture because having two people that are not a mother/father and child (unless you are on BET or marketing to a primarily Black audience during a Black tv show) doesn’t present the diversity image that makes people all warm and fuzzy. And as for the internet, well that is unexplainable. But then, google tends to bring back wiki and articles that talk about emerging areas of society. Black love has been around for centuries. I’d imagine that if you googled “get a White woman” the results would not generally apply to White men.

]]> By: President Anthony Taurus http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/2008/08/where-did-black-love-go/comment-page-1/#comment-184 President Anthony Taurus Fri, 08 Aug 2008 08:51:00 +0000 http://poshlifeposhstyle.com/?p=74#comment-184 i think it's difficult to talk about the love without addressing the subconcious hate this society promotes on black people in general. we're all sort of programmed or brainwashed to see each other in this bad light. while there exists bad elements within everyone, ours seem to be thrust to the forefront the very second it's possible to do so. that level of negative reinforcement, in my opinion fosters this rejection within our own and attraction with others.<br/><br/>outside of that issue, i love my mother. i love my aunts. i love my cousins. i love my black female friends. they are the positive examples that i need to see to reinforce the concept that there are great black women out there. i want to find a good black woman like all those women i know, flaws included lol. <br/><br/>but, these promoted attitudes make it so difficult to just love a black woman and be IN love with a black woman. too many black women tell me i don't exist. but i see myself in the mirror everyday, feel my heart beat, breathe air into my lungs. yet, i still don't exist. <br/><br/>i mean, i know i exist. but it would be nice to get some appreciation for not matching the prevalent stereotype about myself. sure i don't fit the ideal, but who does? i've got my flaws, but who doesn't? why can't i exist? i think it’s difficult to talk about the love without addressing the subconcious hate this society promotes on black people in general. we’re all sort of programmed or brainwashed to see each other in this bad light. while there exists bad elements within everyone, ours seem to be thrust to the forefront the very second it’s possible to do so. that level of negative reinforcement, in my opinion fosters this rejection within our own and attraction with others.

outside of that issue, i love my mother. i love my aunts. i love my cousins. i love my black female friends. they are the positive examples that i need to see to reinforce the concept that there are great black women out there. i want to find a good black woman like all those women i know, flaws included lol.

but, these promoted attitudes make it so difficult to just love a black woman and be IN love with a black woman. too many black women tell me i don’t exist. but i see myself in the mirror everyday, feel my heart beat, breathe air into my lungs. yet, i still don’t exist.

i mean, i know i exist. but it would be nice to get some appreciation for not matching the prevalent stereotype about myself. sure i don’t fit the ideal, but who does? i’ve got my flaws, but who doesn’t? why can’t i exist?

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