5 Myths About Women and Dating

There are a few common misconeptions men have about women and dating. I thought I would bring up a few of them to clear up a few rumors in the male locker room. Ladies help me out.

Myth #1: Strong Women Don’t Need to Be Taken Care Of
Sure we can conquer the world, are confident, and successful. Sometimes, we just want you to help us even if we can do it ourselves. We like being supported, nurtured, and taken care of. We even want you to ask if we need help. It lets us know you care. We still want you to wear the pants. Hey, we might even iron them for you.

Myth #2 – Women just don’t get along with each other and will throw each other under the bus for a man.
Strong, independent, smart women get along famously. They seek each other out and strive to support one another. There are women who behave in a catty way when it comes to other women, being rude or purposely excluding them, but these women don’t represent the norm. Many women have friends they have kept for years and won’t ditch them when “Mr. Right” comes around. We keep those girls around because of our built in support system. Just like guys bounce things off their boys….that’s what our girls are for.

Myth #3 – Some women are really just one of the boys.
Women are women. Not boys. Not men. Women might have hobbies that men also enjoy, but any women that tells a man that either “women don’t like her” or “she gets along better with men” probably thinks if she acts like a guy it will make her more attractive. However, a woman with no female friends should raise an eyebrow. Women who have strong bonds with other women can make better emotional partners. Like women need to watch out for a guy with only female friends….a man should watch out for a woman with only male friends. Very few “friendships” start off platonic. Someone was interested and the other party was not and is waiting for that window of opportunity.

Myth #4: Women aren’t in to sex like men
Lies and deception. We like sex just like you do. Many of us won’t open up to you when we first meet you or until further in the dating game because we have to determine your intentions. Once a woman feels comfortable with you she can go no holds barred. We like trying new things too! Most women are willing to try most things at least once if their partner is in to it. If you are in a healthy relationship it all boils down to communication. If you both like it …don’t be suprised to see it again. If either of you didn’t like the result, speak up and try something new. We want our O too dammit!

Myth #5 Women automatically think of Marriage
Not true. We may not even be on the marriage track in our lives and just want to feel out the dating scene. If we are seriously dating you and not in it for kicks and giggles then women start thinking marriage. If we can’t see you raising our kids, or being the head of our household its time cut our losses. Its not automatic but the thought comes when we have been dating you for awhile.

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