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I’m Not Fat, I’m Thick: Black Women in Media (Toccara, Beyonce, Queen Latifah, Monique)

Black women are constantly told through images in the media about what is beautiful. We are constantly shown what images of beauty are through music videos, hip hop music, movies and television. Everyone wants to fit their butts in some Apple Bottom Jeans, be Bootylicious, and to make your butt cheeks clap for a man. I am so tired of black women justifying their size. Lets get real here folks. Fat is fat….fat is not any other fluffy word you want to call it. Have you ever seen a pound of fat in real life. There you go!!!

Beyonce ain’t thick by accident. We all know the girl loves to eat. But she hits the gym and is a DANCER.

She doesn’t just sit around without any physical exertion. This girl runs for 40 minutes at a treadmill speed every day except Sunday, at intervals of about 6.0 mph to 7.5 mph and does about 20 minutes of strength training and this is all before practicing her dance routines. So, she works out about 6 days a week. How bout them apples!! She does this so she can eat what she wants but avoid heart disease and improve her health.

Her Mastercleanse diet is a quick fix for roles and scenes, which is fine since she has exercise and better eating habits incorporated in her life. This is so much different from just wanting to lose a quick 20 pounds and doing zero physical exertion. If you ain’t running and dancing like Beyonce – don’t compare your bootyliciousness to hers. Her body fat ratio won’t match up guaranteed!
We have all heard Monique holler about hating skinny women and being happy as a big girl. I do think what Monique is doing is positive but with a negative twist. Its always good to have a cheerleader. However, that cheerleader should inspire your best self. Monique’s message encourages overweight and obese women to be complacent. She doesn’t preach about healthy living but is like the pied piper of cakes and cookies. Come on thick sistahs, eat some more and die early while you feel great about your size. Monique’s song is a nice lullaby straight to disease and health issues because we ignore the real issue. Big women can lose weight and can be healthy.
However there are thick women who are improving their diets in order to get healthy.
Queen Latifiah is the spokes person for Jenny Craig and wants to lose 5-10% of her body weight to combat diabetes. We all remember Toccara who first appeared on America’s Next Top Model. After being on Celebrity Fit for two seasons, and having a BMI of 40%, she has slimmed down due to concerns about her health, blood pressure, diabetes, and body image in the media.
Erika Sheffield, a registered dietitian from Baltimore states “As African-American women, we have a different aesthetic in terms of body image. We don’t necessarily perceive a full figure as being a bad thing,” says . “But if you maintain a healthy diet, exercise on a regular basis and take care of yourself and are fuller-figured, you can still be healthy as long as you are aware of the risk factors.
Darryl James in his article provides us with a few stats. “Women with waists thirty-five inches or larger have a 79% increased risk of premature death from heart disease and/or cancer, when compared to women with twenty-eight inch waists or smaller. The increased risk is broken down to twice the risk of death from heart disease and a 63% increased risk of cancer-related death. These risks are carried by women with larger waists even if their weight is otherwise within normal ranges.” In short women with extra belly fat have numerous health risks.
“It also means that while women cheer for Monique’s efforts to give fat women a public relations makeover, the potential is for more women to die from fat-related diseases, while feeling better about their body image.”
We are lying to ourselves about the history of women of African descent as well, “women of African descent only found rampant obesity when they began to adopt European food preferences all over the world, and began adapting to hostile environments by making full use of food byproducts tossed out by slavemasters.”
Debra Dickerson, author of Healthy, My Ass states that “compared with overweight white Americans, overweight black Americans are two to three times more likely to say their weight is average — even after they’ve been told they are overweight or obese by a doctor (emphasis added). It’s one thing not to “see” that you need to lose weight. It’s quite another to reject that knowledge from the medical professional you sought out.”
We need to get it together. Stop rationalizing your size. It ain’t historic, healthy is what is in. If you have a large donk and are working out. More power to you. If your Body Mass Index says overweight or obese, this isn’t fuzzy math. I say this in love because my own mother died of heart disease at age 53. Hit the gym and adjust your eating habits or run the risk of problems in your elderly years. Again STOP RATIONALIZING!!!! Your family will thank you!

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  • Cloe
    While Black women need to lose weight (*for the sake of THEIR health, NOT the sake of someone's erection*), I heard that on average Black women do have denser bones and more muscle... don't know if that's true or not, but if it is, it makes it THAT much harder to lose pounds on a very general scale like the BMI. That's the same problem body builders face when they measure up on the BMI.
  • Name
    i think that it is just important overall to maintain a better lifestyle with healthier eating. i am in college, and have developed health problems due not only to eating, but much to stress and overworking. i talked with my mom and sisters, some real talk, and i feel more determined to get myself together. it's more than just my "image", it's my life at stake. i'm a woman of Faith, and my body is a temple, so i have to keep it together. it's important to me, even at my young age. the article may have some harshness to it (especially in the beginning) but even reading it, i had to realize that it's not about looking as "hot" as Beyonce or any other star for that matter. it's about tking care of me and taking the right steps to improve because i care. i want to say thanks to all those who are also remaining positive. it's encouraging :)
  • leronimo
    Hi, I am celebrating my birthday tomorrow. I am to the point in my life i need to loose some weight. I have the same problem like everyone else, fat around the stomach. I am 5′4″, my weight is around 360. I hate to exercise and i don’t like certain vegetables. Now and then i may go on the track and do a few miles and it helps my breathing. Should i continue with the track for a while? Narconon Vistabay
  • LadyA
    If you are committed to losing weight, you must make adjustments to your diet. The walking is good, but you may want to consider trying to prepare food differently (ie using olive oil instead of butter in some cases, drinking more water, trading in huge fatty deserts for some honey with cinnamon, and most importantly exercising portion control).

    I'm amazed, I'm 5'4" 120lbs. 360 is 3 times my weight. My life would be drastically different.
  • grunchliek
    Queen Fatifah is FAT!

    Those folds are for real...and she is the grossest African American "lady" to ever have the displeasure of seeing on my screen!

    Who the hell made her a queen??? ...and what about those nominations??? (For eating the most ribs with a side of watermelons in one setting!)

    She annoys me beyond belief!

    I do hope that she decides to retire and no longer assault my senses with her "skewed sense of hotness"!!!

    Someone please shoot her an then poke her in the eye with a dull dear antler!

    Thick...yeah you are that and more!
  • wisdomisawoman
    Why do you feel the need to "teach" us? Are if we are so dumb and ignorant that we don't know that what we are putting in our mouths may/will lead to health problems. Why is it presented in such a mean-spirited and demeaning way? White sisters are not approached and talked to this way.

    As for body size there is a distinct difference in bone size and muscle size. We are structurally larger than white women a fact that is unaccounted for in weight tables. Hug a white sister. Better yet have an open discussion about body size and why she is more likely to develop osteoporosis. Studies show that the diet that helps white females lose weight, does not help black females.

    As for your article it demeans us because its tone talks to us like we are stupid and you are intelligent. The tone is mean-spirited and demeaning.
    I hear it in every day life blacks talking to other blacks in a disrespectful tone.

    When we address the issues of poverty, mental and physical abuse, and self esteem we will not need food as a tranquilizer. In the mean time sisters work on your health issues, but never let another black person talk to you in a demeaning manner. Recognize when you are being marginalized by another black who thinks they are better and walk away immediately.

    Yes it is a shame that another black person is emotionally abusive to other blacks.
  • shelontaecarter
    I would like to just respond that we as black people/women first have to be informed about what to eat, drink and cook and to actually (as sad as it may be) taught how to properly cook and prepare food. I have found that as a black woman (carribean decent) that alot of why we are obese and have a malfunctioned mentality of thinking relating to weight in general is because we think that we can name it "thickness". Most black women as well as black people have been raised on the "droppings of slavery eatings". The way in which we cook and the amount of what we do eat is very unhealthy. If we as a people change this then, slowly by slowly we can change our lives and the lives of the next generation. I am currently 5'5" and 170lbs. I walk for 1.5 hours 3 times a week and I have completely changed my eating habits along with my preparation habits. I am WELL shaped and TONED. But, I am not finished! I have very little body fat and hardly a pinch of tummy but, I am not done with me and my healthy lifestylye that will hopefully last a lifetime pertaining to my life. I used to be very small and very athletic when in high school and middle school. I enjoyed the weight but, I rather live longer. It is true that skinny women can be unhealthy because I have a 17 year old daughter and a 36 year old female cousin that are both unhealthy. I have my daughter to run the track with me and she nearly fell out at 110lbs!

    We as black women do have to love ourselves but, it starts with researching what is proper for us to eat and what not to eat. Changing those eating habits will help and slow down on the sweets and the snacking. Find an outlet to release the stress in a healthy manner to combat the belly fat horome that is triggered when stress is present in our lives. When we take into effect our status quo in this country of the USA and the foods that come at us stemming from the fast food and then some, then WE as a people have to take into account of what we are buying in the grocery store, how we cook it, how we grow from it, and best of all, how will it be processed in our bodies and the after effect of that enjoyment of the food that we just consumed. So, I leave us with this in mind:

    "I am hungry, so what can I eat that is healthy for me and that will satisfy me without looking for death early caused by my own hands?"
  • ridethisblackcowboy
    Don't ask,as a black dude,do you believe I wouldn't LOVE to bury my lad-steak between Mel B.'s legs,but then I hear that black U.K. lasses are
    FAR MORE BEAUTIFUL AND VOLUPTUOUS than North American examples.
    Also,Caribbean "
    birdies" are the best-looking and-built women of ANY group.
    Oh,and Don't Ask,my IQ is 157.What's yours?(two-thierds that,if you're lucky)
    And RAP SUCKS MOOSE D**K!!!!
  • Dont Ask
    There is no question of taste due to ethnicity; Beyonce's body = scorching, Monique body = OBESE....and both are black...go figure...

    Ridethisblackcowboy, you are an idiot. There are plenty of beautiful healthy black women and many with no attitude. I have dated both black women and white women and have enjoyed both...equal opportunity. Maybe you are not as handsome as you think and the beautiful black women don't pay you any attention..then again...you are also an idiot.
  • RideThisBlackCowboy
    Queensize Fatifah isn't thick;she's a FREAKIN' FAT BROAD!!!!
    (We're both 5-9,220 lb.,but I don't think Dana-Owens,her true name-
    has almost 19'' Biceps like me!!!!)YOU DAMN FAT BLACK BROADS
    ARE IN DENIAL ABOUT YOUR OBESITY!!!!(Which is why this handsome black lad
    dates buxom blondes!!!!)
  • Eric
    Well, one would think that by now BW would better understand this critical ongoing health issue regarding being overweight. But, if one just looks around its clear that 'still' far too many just don't seem to get it! I applauud those that are really starting to address this important situation, but let's be honest most BW aren't listening! Well, as for Monique she's not helping at all with her continual rants about "love comes from within" and all that nonsense! The real facts are that BW are dying! She can't even lose weight herself! I know she tried, but was unsuccessful so was Queen Latifah..that's why she was dropped by Jenny Craig. Sorry ladies there's a big (no pun intended) difference between just being "FAT" and being THICK! Sorry, that's a dead, and also a tired excuse ! BW are the most overweight women for their gender then all races of women today in the US! It's also way out of control! but, don't just take my word for that...go check the stats for yourself! I'm a BM and to be brutally honest I'm sick and tired of seeing all these BW both young and older that are just plain FAt! It's just totally embrassing! BW are dying! Enough already!
  • Eric
    Well, one would think that by now BW would better understand this critical ongoing health issue regarding being overweight. But, if one just looks around its clear that 'still' far too many just don't seem to get it! I applauud those that are really starting to address this important situation, but let's be honest most BW aren't listening! Well, as for Monique she's not helping at all with her continual rants about "loving comes from within" and all that nonsense! The real facts are that BW are dying! She can't even lose weight herself! I know she tried, but was unsuccessful so was Queen Latifah..that's why she was dropped by Jenny Craig. Sorry ladies there's a big (no pun intended) between just being "FAT" and being THICK! Sorry, that's a dead topic! BW are the most overweight women for all of their gender then all women today in the US! It's also way out of control...go check the stats yourself! I'm a BM and to be honest I'm sick and tired of seeing all these BW both young and older that are just FAt! It's totally embrassing! BW are dying! Enough already!
  • i am too a fat thick black woman,so if someone insulting me as a human,first she or he must look first at the mirror.
  • RideABlackCowboy
    No,you're fat,and just admit it!!!!!
  • Sakeeta
    You're absolutely right in your assessment of Mo'Nique. She doesn't really hate skinny women, she is trying to uplift fuller figured women and we all know she's a freakin' comedienne for God's sake. Mo'Nique actually has a personal trainer and encourages others to get fit on her radio show. So please stop demonizing her. People need to be healthy regardless of size. You can sit there and think exercising alone will decrease your risk of heart disease, diabetes, etc., but until you analyze what you eat and how your treat your body (alcohol, smoking, etc.) you can be a size 2 and unhealthy.
  • Hello ladies ad gentlemen,
    I am new to this site but I have been reading the blogs about being thick, fat etc. First off all I agree with most of the last comment that exercise is key but please everyone. making consistent changes and sticking wit them is key. Beyonce, Monique all have the funds to hire a master gur to whip them into shape but what is not mentioned is the drastic up and down weight changes that effects the heart and the body. The stress that the body goes through is not always immediate. I catches up with you and is often combated wit other health risk, i.e stress, high blood pressure ad obesity. Many times these individuals are working with a trainer to assist in monitoring their physical changes. The average person is doing this on their own or maybe asking for assistance from their doctor. You may want o change your lifestyle to a more healthier fare but even the best doctors many not focus on the best type of dietary switch. Working with a nutritionist or even a personal chef/private chef may be better for you will get the one on one attention that you need to assist in the daily routine that addresses your needs. I am not advocating my service but I am keeping it real. Many doctors are over worked and want you, the patient to be pro-active,can only do but so much. You may get a list of things you should eat but let be real, how many times are you just completely overwhelmed with all of the changes that you must make. Cutting all of those not so good foods and not replacing them with substitutes that are equally satisfying just combats the situation and increases the frustration and procrastination to begin.
    My goal is to bring you back to the table one bite at a time..healthy and with flavor....
  • free2bee
    I believe in health...but I don't believe my overall health is wrapped up in my weight or size. I've never been skinny, NEVER...but because everyone else was so damn skinny I was looked at as big...BUT I could run, jump, shoot, and lift more weights than my skinny counterparts. So who was really the healthy one?


    As for Mo'nique and her hate for the skinny women, I think that her goal is to give the big woman confidence, nothing more nothing less. All to often women with any shape, or even excess baggage, is made to feel ugly...and who really wants to live under that cloud.



    Don't get me wrong, I believe there should be a limit and that ALL Black people need to take better care of themselves. There are just too many variables to just condemn a few for habits passed down.
  • Beautifully.Conjured.Up
    Once again, you read my mind. I think we as Black women tend to get our ideology of "thick" and "fat" mixed up due to our own insecurities in conjunction with the ideologies that society brings us. As someone who comes lives in a family where diabetes and high blood pressure dwell, I try my best to not be oblivious by saying, "I'm thick." My health can't afford that mental defect.


    Its sad when we as a people have a problem with working out or trying to stay fit, and making excuses thinking you are thick...no honey, you're fat, and its not good.



    Great post...I think I will add you to my blog roll :)
  • Ahimsa
    I completely agree that black women need to start being accountable for their own food and exercise habits. I, myself, have put on quite a few pounds in the past several years and have just decided to do something about it in the past few years. I changed the way I was eating and started working out at the gym 3-5 days per week trying to be more active in general. Maintaining a healthy weight is not easy for everyone, especially for those of us born with slower metabolisms, but it's something that we have to start doing as a people.
  • Kyle
    I would like to say this is one of the "realest" articles I read, sorry had no better way to say it, we as black people still have issues taking control of our health. Sometimes we feel as though if we don't feel sick then we are healthy. Poor eating habits are passed down and as I sit and struggle with my wait the most important thing you can't do is rationalize your weight. All this is about doing well for you, so if you don't want to get healthy for yourself who would you do it for. This is coming from a guy who's father had a heart attack and he wasn't even terribly out of shape but his diet didn't help. Thanks for this article I look forward to the next.
  • Joyia
    Finally someone with an intelligent sense approaching and attacking the myths of our thickness as African American Woman. I know for myself, that I am not thick and I am fat and I am a size 14. I am used to being that size 8-10 and working my ass off all of my life but as I approach my late thirties and got a little comfortable, I quit hitting the sports and the gym and the weight hit me back. Now my doctor is saying see a nutritionist and get the weight off. And guess what, i am taking the responsiblity for myslef and doing just that cause I will not go out like alot of our race. there is a reason that we as black people are dying faster than any other race.
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